Meet Dr. Deb

Dr Deb Barnett

Dr. Deb is a skillful relationship mentor who empowers creative, heart-centered, successful women to have the deep, intimate, joyful relationship that they long for with their husband, partner, or future partner.

Dr. Deb powerfully blends her specialties in Positive Psychology, Energy Psychology, and Relationship Psychology, with practical techniques for making relationships flourish. Dr. Deb guides women in finding ways to express themselves more fully, and be cherished, while making their partner feel appreciated and valuable.

Though working with Dr. Deb, women who previously only dreamed of having a juicy, fulfilling romantic relationship are empowered with the knowledge and confidence to create and sustain a deeply satisfying, intimate relationship.

I know how your heart longs for a passionate, yet grounded, romantic relationship.

Why do I know understand the yearning in your heart? Because I went through same process of wondering why finding love wasn’t easier and I felt lonely and frustrated. Thankfully, I have traveled the road from being a single woman who had everything going for her, yet struggled to find a lasting, successful, loving relationship, to being ecstatically married to the man of my dreams.

The first step on my journey was to stop dating with an agenda to find THE man.  Instead, I first focused on what I was doing to prevent myself from attracting the relationship I wanted.

I found out that I was dating in a very masculine manner. I was dating to find The One with whom to have a relationship and live happily ever after. I was a woman on a mission. . . . and I was turning off men in the process. In addition I kept losing myself when dating or in a relationship. I tried to figure out the particular qualities each man envisioned his ideal woman would possess, and I attempted to be his ideal woman. As a result, I ended up feeling resentful from working so hard to be an “ideal woman”. I felt taken for granted and I longed to feel the joy that I thought I should feel in a happy romantic relationship.

Through years of professional study and personal experience, I discovered what important components needed to be present for me to manifest and sustain a fun, sexy, dreamy, yet grounded, healthy relationship with an amazing man who adores me and treats me with complete respect and deep appreciation. I learned when to be in my masculine energy and how and when to be grounded in my feminine energy. I found that when I relaxed into and enjoyed my feminine energy; supported my partner and honored his strengths in our relationship; plus practiced positive communication skills, magic unfolded.

I now am passionate about helping women create and enjoy the same high-quality, life-enriching relationship for themselves that I enjoy.

I pinch myself every day to make sure that I am awake and not just dreaming that I am in an amazing relationship.

I would love for you to have this same delicious experience. Contact me to set up a time for us to discuss how I can support you in making your relationship dream a reality.

Dr. Deb’s Credentials and Training

  • Ph.D. in Clinical psychology – The Institute of Transpersonal Psychology, Palo Alto, CA
  • Member of the International Positive Psychology Association
  • Member of the American Psychological Association
  • EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique/ Meridian Tapping) training with EFT Master Carol Look
  • Amino acid therapy training with Julia Ross, author of The Mood Cure and The Diet Cure
  • Ayurvedic Medicine studies with Dr. Vasant Lad at the Ayurvedic Institute
  • Reiki Master

Dr. Deb lives in Asheville, North Carolina with her husband, Jim, and their Jack Russell terrier, Isabel. Dr. Deb offers in-person programs in Asheville, North Carolina, as well as at-a-distance programs to women around the world.


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